Discussing your child’s autism diagnosis can be tricky, especially when you’re still feeling overwhelmed by it. While research surrounding autism has increased tremendously, what the condition entails still confuses many people. There’s a huge value in knowing how to explain this condition in a simple, digestible way. Clear communication and accredited sources or articles to share with family members are key to building a strong support system for your child.
While developing the best routine and support system for your child may take time, let’s start with the first step, sharing your child’s autism diagnosis with your closest family and friends. Here are a few tips on explaining autism to other family members.
Explain What Autism Means for Your Child
Although many people have heard of autism spectrum disorder, they may not know much about it. You can start by explaining that autism is a range of conditions that can potentially cause social, communication, and developmental challenges. It would be best to clarify that autism is common, and about one in 44 children in the United States have autism.
While explaining autism to your family, you should include your child’s individualized challenges. It’s important to note that autism looks different for everyone and has no one-size-fits-all description. However, you should also explain to them the common triggers for repetitive behaviors and how to avoid overstimulating your child.
Prepare Yourself for Difficult Reactions
Family members may react differently than others when they hear the news. Relatives may feel indifferent, sad, or overwhelmed; giving them their space is always best. Just like you, they also need to digest the information they received.
Allow your family to express their feelings, but make sure that their feelings are respectable. Explain that you work closely with specialists who know what’s best for your child. You should also prepare for a range of questions, so if you have a pamphlet on hand, that would be the best time to pass it around.
Lean on Your Child’s Doctors for Support
Before you explain autism to your family members, you should ask for additional resources from your child’s doctor. Having help can make explaining and answering the more difficult questions easier. If your child is starting ABA therapy, ask the clinical supervisor to provide any information or examples you can use to help in these conversations.
It would be best always to ask doctors, therapists, and specialists for help. They’re there to support you and your child. You could also ask one of the specialists to explain autism to your family if they have time.
